Classic Hip-Hop! Posted by JD on 9:23 AM

Ok, so I'm sitting here at working listening to the What in the Ham Sandwhich Show with Sean Slaughter and Cook Dog...and they got a special guest on this show, DJ iRock Jesus (Coast 2 Coast Mixtape DJ's). At any rate, iRock played a blend of a song, Canton Jones' Hater Day with Nine's Whatcha Want beat. I know, I know...most of ya'll have no idea who Nine is. But if you're one of the select few, that was high school/college aged during the 90's, you probably do. So then, I wanted to hear the original song and not just the instrumental. I hit Youtube...and ran across plenty old joints. No, these songs won't glorify God...but they do hold a place in my personal history, so for that reason, I'm not so quick to let them go. There was a time when rappers rapped for the love of it. No, the content wasn't perfect, but it wasn't about all this rah rah of today's artists. Don't judge me! Enjoy the music!

I'll probably be adding joints as they come to me or I come across them. MAN, if these joints don't remind me of my days on The Hill (Shout out to all the cats I used to watch Rap City in the TV Room with!!)






















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He’s The King, I’m The DJ [Mixtape] Posted by JD on 9:01 AM

DJ Jazzy Jeff featuring Michael Jackson -





Jeff said he was inspired to do the mixtape after fellow DJ, Mick Boogie suggested putting his playlist together as a proper release.

“I did it exactly as I would play it out live,” Jeff explained. “I kind of wanted to give a feel like you heard it in a club. I didn’t necessarily want to go in a certain order, ’cause everybody in the world plays certain Michael Jackson songs. And I wanted to play songs that not everyone plays, play some obscure album cuts. And if you listen to it, I have some a capella and versions of songs that not everyone had heard. So, I kind of wanted to mix it up and keep people off guard. Just give them an example of all that Michael was like.”


“After Mike passed, I really started digging, and I found a bunch of stuff that I didn’t know Mike had, especially with the Jackson 5,” Jeff told MTV News. “He had a whole bunch of albums that go completely past people. I think people just go for [popular songs like] ‘I Want You Back,’ ‘Never Can Say Goodbye’ — and there was a bunch of obscure albums that all had really good stuff on them. Then it was hard, because I wanted to keep it one CD and not make it a Mike anthology. I wanted to just make it something that was entertaining, that you could just play from the beginning to end.”

The 49-song mixtape is sponsored by Undcrwrn apparel and will be available for free download on their site starting Monday (October 26), on the eve of premiere of the concert documentary, “Michael Jackson’s This Is It.” The mixtape cover, featuring an illustrated take on Jeff and Smith’s album He’s the DJ, I’m the Rapper, is also printed on a T-shirt from Udrcrwn, retailing for $32.

(Copy from RealMajor.com)





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Christmas Time! Posted by JD on 6:35 PM

(Shot with my phone's crap camera...don't judge me!! lol)

Before you theologians and Bible scholars jump down my throat, I definitely know, honor, and appreciate what the meaning behind and the importance of what CHRISTmas is really about. But in that, I have to say...I love the love that permeates throughout my house during this season. The Motown Christmas cuts playing (it ain't Christmas time TO ME until I hear The Temptations "Silent Night"...I don't know about ya'll lol) as my wife and daughter decorate the tree...my son and his friend running up and down the stairs laughing... Man, God has been so good to my family and I. He is such a faithful provider, an awesome wonder!! During this time especially, remember what the birth and life of Jesus really means to you! "I came that they may have and enjoy life, and have it in abundance (to the full, till it overflows)." Enjoy this life! It's a gift in itself! Think about how He's blessed you and do your best to be a blessing to someone else!!


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Coach of the Year?! Posted by JD on 12:28 PM

Man please!! What are the requirements?! I can't believe this guy. Is he serious?! Ok, let me back up. Not sure who follows college football, but I do. Not as closely as I once did before marriage and kids, but I follow close enough to know what's going on. And I just (well, not just) found out that Brian Kelly, former coach of the Cincinnati Bearcats and current coach of the Notre Dame Fighting Irish, won The Home Depot Coach of the Year honors for 2009. No question, his sideline stats and team leadership prove that he is deserving of the award...but what about character?! Doesn't integrity count for anything anymore?! I mean come on...the guy does a phenominal job leading his team to an undefeated season and in the waking moments before the biggest game in those kids' young lives, he decides to turn his back on them for his "dream job"?! How selfish could that be?! After reading this story, I would have walked out after he made the annoucement too!! I mean, lets be real...we all knew that he was going to take the job...what was the harm in waiting until January 2, 2010 to accept the position? Nevermind the fact that the team overcame the hurdle of dealing with the Notre Dame coaching job media frenzy throughout most of the season...when the rubber hits the road, this guy abandons his team?! AND THEN, he's honored with the Coach of the Year award?! Wow...do better Home Depot and NCAA!



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Wake up Tiger...WAKE UP! Posted by Anonymous on 8:26 PM

Tiger,
Now I do commend you trying to fix your situation through your apology. But you have to know it's not going to just go away over night. Tiger Woods...what were you thinking?! How can a person make two stupid decisions, at THIS point in your life and career, you must be taking some kind of drugs or something.?! Looking at all you've accomplished in your career up until this point, this really raises an eyebrow for fans, both young and old.

When we think of Tiger Woods, we must admit, he's no "average joe"...he's an icon to the sports world. I have to say, this is absolutely crazy...so soon after you were married?! How can you think possibly cheating on your wife is going to be kept as a private matter, as large as you are in the sport community?! Are you serious Tiger?! YOU made your so call private life, public. Its funny to me when movie stars and athletes feel that in some strange existence in their minds, that they don't expect anyone to say anything about there actions. I believe that is a very child-like approach. When you're Tiger Woods...you CAN'T mess up like this! Granted, we all mess up, but like this?! The media has been waiting on something like this...use your head man.

Life Without Parole for a Minor?! Posted by JD on 1:24 PM

I just spent the last hour or so familiarizing myself with a young woman named Sarah Kruzan. I found many blogs, petition sites, etc. with her story so I won't take the time retyping it all. They are all basically reviews and thoughts on the video that was shot by the National Center for Youth Law of her actual explanation of the events leading to her ultimate conviction.



This is beyond a sad situation. Yes, it is absolutely wrong to take someone's life...but her childhood was taken from her. And taken from her in such a way that it forever altered her way of thinking and ultimately her life. I'm not sure exactly what can be done about this obvious injustice, but the best I can do is spread the word. The more that know, the better possibility that someone who actually can do something will be moved. Here are the online petitions that can be viewed and signed. Take a moment to visit them and let your voice be heard!

www.thepetitionsite.com

www.criminaljustice.change.org

I've prayed for the situation...you should too!


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The WORLD'S Next Top Model... (YEA RIGHT!! LOL!!) Posted by JD on 7:16 AM

My photographer homeboy, Sam Barr, got the idea yesterday to do a mock print ad for me from the photoshoot we did a couple months back. This is what he came up with. (Quietly, he might be inspiring me to do one of two things: create my own mock campaign from that shoot...oooorrr, pursue a career in print modeling?! NOT!! LOL!!!!) At any rate, check it out, and knowing Barr, there's probably more of these to come!




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Shark Tank Posted by JD on 8:38 AM

My buddies Sam and Victor had been telling me about this show, Shark Tank, for some time now and I never took the time to check it out. But today, Sam came in my office telling me about a particular episode and how the business owners and the "Sharks" got into heated negotiations and it got me kinda hype! I HAD to see what it was he was talking about. So I googled it and found the video on Vimeo, check it out...

JumpForward on ST from JumpForward on Vimeo.

I am a fan. Just like that. I was telling Sam, because of my lifestyle, I really don't have time to watch alot of primetime television. But I found some of the episodes available online, so I will definitely be cathing the ones I can! If business dealings excites and motivates you like it does me, I would suggest you check it out too!

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"Prosperity Gospel"? Really? Posted by Ryan J Ford on 8:33 AM

First, I'd like to thank both Jerrold and Charmaine for allowing me to be a contributor to this blog! Now on with why I'm here. So I saw a video this morning by a Pastor explaining why he "Abominates the Prosperity Gospel" the message that teaches God wants you rich. He goes on to say that he finds this a radical message. I looked up the word Abominate and it means, to feel disgust towards; to abhor; to loathe or detest thoroughly; to hate in the highest degree, as if with religious dread; Abominable; detested, which in itself is contradictory to the character of a so called Pastor or Christian in my opinion.

He claims that his message only teaches about how well things will go for you if you follow Christ. He says that he feels HATRED toward the "Prosperity Gospel" His basis for this argument is in 1 Timothy 6:6-10. He claims that Property Preachers are cultivating suicidal behavior he says is described in verse 10. He even says that people are cursed with riches. What is the Prosperity Gospel? The mere fact that such a term even exists would suggest to me that there is a Poverty Gospel that is also being preached.

So what do you think of the so called "Prosperity Gospel"? Are said preachers mis-leading the people of God?

Ryan Ford

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Tim Tebow - Heisman Winning Man of God Posted by JD on 7:04 AM

By now everyone who follows sports, college football specifically knows the story of Tim Tebow. I initially heard about him through the hype on Sports Center and all the water cooler conversations. Without going to far into it, my thoughts were, "Yea whatever...another good quarterback." But then I caught one of his games and yea, the dude got a small rocket attached to his shoulder, good pocket presence, and can get out and run if he's got to...yea, he's pretty good." But then after the game, this is the type of post-game interview I saw...




Ok, so not only is this dude a beast on the field, but he's got some sense. Ok, maybe it's just the "Thank God for the win" speech that we hear so often from athletes all the time. But "my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ..." hmmm...that was a bit over the top if it was the typic speech. So I decided to do some research and learned the story of his birth via a radio interview Here's a similar video of the story...




I've heard it said like this...his pulpit is on the field instead of in a building.





One of the things I really admire about him is that he seeks to be a role model. He knows his position, the platform he has access to and welcomes it! I tell people all the time, we need more "super hero Christians". People our young people can look up to, people who they consider "stars" and "cool". Tim Tebow is doing an awesome work for The Kingdom and I pray him all the success God has in store for him!

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Brand Refresh: WDSA (Part 1) Posted by JD on 4:58 PM

So, I noticed a fellow designer blogged about the "refresh" (redesign) on his company's logo (Holy Cow! Creative) and I thought it was a pretty cool thing. So, I'm joining the ranks of the blogging design world. I am tasked with redesigning the site of a company I'm partnering with. Thing about it, this will be my first "official" website design. (Shhhhhh...don't tell anyone!! lol) I am new to the company's team, but the first thing I saw before jumping into things feet first was a complete refresh of the brand. And let me say this, the business is doing so well to the point, a refresh hasn't even been in the plans, NO TIME! (Shout out to the homie Big Mike - much respect bro!) But with my joining the team, I'm going to make time so that we can go to the next level. The brand's web presence is very important.


The company: WheredaSAINTSat?
Interactive Agency, Macork Solutions and Lifestyle Marketing Company, Liquid Soul Media have teamed up to deliver innovative e-campaign and e-promotions solutions to reach the faith-based audience. WheredaSAINTSat? provides e-campaign packages, custom branded e-mail templates and website design and development packages for churches and ministries. With this collaboration of the strategic vision and innovation from two powerhouse firms in the creative media industry, “WheredaSAINTSat?” allows companies and organizations a direct path to reaching the faith-based community.


The first thing I noticed was the logo. It needed some work. Check it out...



And here's the refreshed logo!



Didn't want to stray to far from what the original designer created. But at the same time, I wanted to modernize the fonts and do something a little different with the placement of the words. I also thought it would be cool to add a little character (pun intended). I figure we can use "him" from time to time in different applications. (Just a sidebar: I recently upgraded my OS, so of course I had to wipe clean my HD. I called myself backing everything up...but I can't find the native file of this new logo for the life of me. Looks like I'll have to recreate it based off the jpg. Sucks!) So there, that's done...now on to the site. Here's where it's at right now:



Besides the fact that the site hasn't been updated since it was created, it's just time to...hmmm...refresh!! The clientele has stepped to another level (clients including Tyler Perry, TNT, CNN, Rainforest Productions and the list goes on...), I feel the site needs to step to another level too! I'll be back with Part 2 of this refresh project once I get something to show!


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Clarification about my Social Networking post Posted by Charmaine on 3:32 AM

Tuesday I posted a blog about my experience with social networking. I accidentally deleted it trying to fix a typo on that post - I was using my cell phone browser because I had no access to the internet for most of the day yesterday. Yes I know...I'm a rookie!!! Won't be doing that again! LOL! Well I didn't get a chance to respond to any comments, but I did get to read some of the feedback and I am kind of glad I deleted it. It seemed like my intention for posting and my message wasn't clear. I'm still trying to figure this blogging thing out so please bear with me!

If you read that post and was offended or thought I was specifically talking about you personally I apologize for that. That was not my intention to publicly call out any one person or group of people to criticize them. My intent was to post some observations I had and to find out what other people thought.

When I first created my Twitter account I had my tweets protected and checked out the people who were following me before I accepted their follow request. However most of the people (real people not organization accounts) have open accounts so you can just follow them without being approved. Because of that I have been exposed to lots of great information, websites, resources, and new music that I probably would not have heard of otherwise. That is what I like about Twitter. I've seen some regular everyday people like me who are doing some pretty darn AWESOME things for the Glory of God and it is very encouraging. I've also been able to peak into the lives of some wider-know people (pastors, artists, etc) and get a different perspective on their lives. I think that's pretty cool.

One thing I've noticed since I've been on Twitter is that I've seen a number of posts from people mentioning something about not knowing the people who follow them, or cautions about crazy people online that follow people. I can certainly understand that. I feel a little weird following people I have not met personally because they don't know me or my intentions for following them and I don't want to come off like some kind of weirdo stalker just reading their posts but not responding. So recently I unprotected my tweets so that I could interact with people who don't follow me (since they won't see my responses to their posts if they are not following me).

Based on my experience with Twitter thus far the question I posed in my last post was is it possible to be "social" on a social network like Twitter? My observation is that it is pretty darn hard to make friends with people you have not had a personal interaction with because you may not know their intention for having an account. It seems hard to tell which people really want to interact. If they have a large number of followers, they may not interact with you because they can't possibly respond to everyone that responds to something they post. Some people don't follow anyone else and only post so maybe they only want a one-way relationship and their intention is not to interact with people who respond to their posts. The point is it seems really hard to tell the difference.

So I wonder if anyone else has had this kind of experience? Or maybe you have some tips on using Twitter to build relationships? Either way I'd love to hear your perspective.

I am going to keep my tweets unprotected. My hope is that I'd get personally interact with people I meet on Twitter -I realize that I may not ever get to for some very valid reasons. But if you are one of those people wondering about the people following you and you see my name, you now hopefully have a better insight into my intentions and don't think I'm the weirdo stalker type!!!

Charmaine :o)

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Don't Waste Your Life - CD Posted by JD on 2:07 PM

Just came across an ad while flipping through the program book from the 2009 Legacy Conference that Maine attended a couple months ago (I could only make it to the concert). The ad was for 10:31 Sermon Jams...so I went to the site right quick and came across this video...





Ok, so that video was pretty dope right?! The speaker, by the way, was John Piper. There's a CD that that message was taken from, check it out the site, they have a bunch of stuff available!


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Ok, So What's the Deal with Halloween?! Posted by JD on 8:58 AM

In the words on my homeboy Mr. Ford...this should be good! It's something I've thought about for a while now, even had some conversations about it, but I want to take it a step further. I've gotten the biblical scholarly explanation of what Halloween is, but something must be out of wack, because I still see and hear about "Christians" participating in Halloween activities (I didn't say "celebrating" Halloween on purpose.) At any rate, I'd like to open this up for discussion, as I think think it's something that we should all be on the same page about so that we know how to conduct ourselves, and more than that, how to lead others in this area. So at the bell, let's get it crackin!! *DING*


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It's All About Perspective Posted by JD on 8:08 PM

What's going on friend! I'm glad you stopped by to check out today's flavor! When I get ideas for the blog, I normally just email them to myself...the problem is, finding the time to take them from idea to post. At any rate, let's get this one out...

About a week or so ago, I heard a Pastor on the radio deliver a message about the Kingdom, how we're to operate in it, benefits, etc. (I really wish I remember who it was so I could give credit where it's due.) Anyway, he was saying that when you're in the Kingdom, there's a grace that God has for us where we no longer have to rely on our own ideology, reasoning,etc. - we can base our decisions, thoughts, etc. on His Word...what He said about us, what He has for us, etc. He went on to say that many people view the Word of God as too strict, filled with examples of what we can't or shouldn't do. And there is some truth to that, but what he emphasized is that it's all about perspective and how we look at the scriptures where God gives us instructions.

The example he used was the 10 Commandements. We all know how they go right, if not...click the link and refresh your memory. Anyway, the first commandement ..."You shall have no other gods before Me" is normally read like a direct order from God. Like He's shaking His finger at you telling you not to have any other God's before Him. Now, the reality (lol), is that's exactly how He meant it. BUT, if you're saved, sanctified and happily conducting your life as a Kingdom citizen...we have the option of changing our perspective and seeing what He said as a promise instead of an order! What do I mean right?! Check this out, instead of reading it like He's ordering you, read it like He's telling you, reassuring you that you won't. Like, "Because you're with me now, you won't even desire to do that..." I hope you get what I'm saying, because it was freeing to me... I will not kill, I will not steal, etc...because I'm super holy?! Nope!! Because I have no desire to, my induction into His family and my constant meditation on His goodness, faithfulness and mercy - those old desires, thoughts, etc. are being taken from me. So, it's no longer an order (to me), I read those words like promises from Him to me! Yup!! But not just the 10 Commandements, it goes for anytime He's said anything for me to do/not to do. After all, at the end of the day, every parameter He's put up is for us, to keep us, not to keep things from us! It's all about perspective...

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JD's Photoshoot with Samuel Barr Photography Posted by JD on 6:27 PM

I've been working with Sam for some years now, and I've seen his passion for and skills in photography grow and continue to get better. Normally, working with clients, Sam's creative genuis can be stifled. I wanted to see him just "do him". Whatever he saw, however he wanted to handle the post-processing...he had a blank check. A couple months ago, I was privledged to get on the schedule of Chicago's own Samuel Barr. He happens to be a close friend of mine, but business is business, so I had to get down just like any other client. So for a day in downtown Chicago, I was what my wife likes to call, a "super model" lol. Here are some of the ones I think are extra hot.

(If you are interested in procuring the services of the great Sam Barr, check him out online.)

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Simply Favre-lous Posted by JD on 9:34 PM

So I just got done watching my beloved Packers lose on Monday Night Football... :( I had been looking forward to this game since they announced Brett was going to be a Viking (still can't understand how a man who spends that many season in the green and gold can don a Vikings jersey, but I digress). The first half was all that it was hyped up to be...but no Peterson. I had to add that, because all the commentators talked all week on how the Pack wouldn't have an answer for him, but at the end of the game, my dude (who I KNOW is a beast, only ran for 55 yards on 25 carries. THAT'S not good. Brett was old school Brett, gun-slingin' and scoring touchdowns! Aaron Rogers actually played pretty good, despite the fact that dude got sacked EIGHT times!! *sidebar* I mean, what do they really expect this cat to do back there if he isn't given any time to do it?! Eight sacks? EIGHT SACKS?! The one dude, Jared Allen, had 4 1/2 by himself!! I mean, can we get a double team on this dude, a substitution...something?! Crazy thing is, even with all the pressure on Rogers, the dude had a career game (as far as yardage)...26 for 37 for 384 yards with 2 touchdowns. What that tells me, is with some sort of protection up front, they could actually do something. We got a good secondary, good DB's, a good front line on D...some good receivers, Grant does his thing...it's just that dang offensive line man!!

Brett did his thing though...can't front on that. Threw for three touchdown passes and 271 yards, leading his team to the W (...with no Peterson). He looked calm doing it, and in classic Brett fashion...like he was having a ball doing it. Yes, him playin for the Vikes is like high treason, but you can't watch a cat like that play for as long as he wore the green and gold and not still be a fan. He's the truth, period. At the end of the day, that was a very rough game to watch as a Packer fan. They decided to make a game of it with like 5 minutes left in the game, but too little too late. At 2-2, I'm not sure how this one's gonna end up. I stay true though...that's never a question, but c'mon Pack...give us something to cheer for!!

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Dope Songs/Videos!! Posted by JD on 7:28 AM

I'm a music head, there's no question there! My choice of music has changed drastically over the years...yes, I still keep my ears to the street, but I don't purchase/meditate on certain music like I used to. I come across some joints that can't be categorized...dope is dope! Same thing for videos, when I come across something that has to be shared, I'm going to put them here. So check back...you never know what you might be missing out on!

DJ Morph ft. Frontlynaz "Can't Break Us" Official Music Video from Frontlynaz Inc. on Vimeo.

Sean Slaughter ft. J.R. - FLESH KILLA (Official Music Video) from Daniel Ostrem on Vimeo.

LECRAE:: GO HARD from Adamson.TV on Vimeo.

Steve "Stone" Huff Love Me Like That Video from The Fog Films on Vimeo.

Read My Blog Because I'm Black Posted by Charmaine on 6:38 PM

Sounds pretty silly, huh? I mean there are lots of reasons that you could read my blog...but I'd just like you to read it because I'm black. That's a good enough reason, right? Well if you think that's ridiculous....read on....

Today I heard on WMBI that Farrakhan met with some local ministers regarding the upcoming Cook County Board President election. Apparently these ministers feel that there are too many black folk running in the election and it would split the black vote. This would be terrible because it could mean that blacks could potentially loose a seat that we've occupied for the last 16 years and also cause other black folk to loose seats in other government posts. What these ministers seem to assume is that black folks will only vote for someone that is black. That also assumes that a black person is the only person with the wisdom we need to solve hard issues - that a black person is the best person for the job because they are black. Really?? In 2009 this is happening?? The sad thing is that there is a bit of truth to that assumption - we experienced that in the last election. I personally had conversations with people who voted for President Obama just because he is black. They had no clue about where he stood on issues important to them. He is black and that was enough for their vote.

Ok, ok...let me put myself out there and say a part of me DOES feel some pride when I hear about a black person that has had success - especially in an area where we are traditionally underrepresented. But let me also say that I SIN and I am in need of constant grace and mercy from God. Thank God for His son Jesus who came, died, and rose so that I could be forgiven for those prideful feelings. I mean, I know in my head that I shouldn't vote for someone just because they are black so I do as much homework as I can to figure out where a person stands on issues important to me before I give them my vote. But I seem to be a minority in that respect. What happened to judging someone based on the "content of their character"? And Jesus tells us that we will know people "by their fruit".

I tell you what though...let a group of white people get together and PUBLICLY make comments like those quoted in this Chicago Tribune article and it would be on!! I mean full blown marching and protesting would begin. Where is the Rainbow PUSH Coalition to protest this injustice??? Why isn't Al Sharpton calling for someone to be fired? I know there was/are certain injustices towards us but that does not give us the right to reverse RACISM. Racism is wrong period. I especially expect better from Christian ministers. Seems to me like their race trumps their faith. Our allegiance should be to God alone - participating in something like this shows they are not honoring God's command to "love thy neighbor". There was no clause to excuse them from loving someone of another race.

In the presidential election we heard a lot about "change". What I don't understand about my people (especially in urban areas), is why....WHY...do they keep voting in the same people who haven't made our communities any better. Please someone clue me in. Think about this: if you think the public schools are horrible, the CTA sucks, there's too much crime, no economic improvement in your community AND you have had the same Mayor/Alderman/County Board President (or his son)/State Rep/Senator/County Commissioner for as long as you can remember....could it be time for a change???

So for the next round of elections in Illinois here are some suggestions for affecting change in your community:

• Make a list of the things you would like to see changed/improved in your area and things that are important to you. Here are some examples from my list: (1) Godly leadership - is the person a Christian? (2) Economic Development - are there businesses bringing jobs and tax dollars to my community? Is local business ownership encouraged? (3) Increased home values - this affects funding for schools.

• Find out who your government officials are. To find out who your federal and statewide representatives are visit the Illinois State Board of Elections site and enter your address. To find your county representatives visit the Cook county Clerk's Office website.If you live in Chicago, there are additional government representatives on the Cook County Clerk's Office site. You can find all other municipality officials on this same website.

• Find out who is running for election (or re-election). You can visit www.voterinfonet.com when the election cycle gets closer to generate a custom voter guide with candidate information.

• Do research on ALL candidates! Visit their websites, attend town hall meetings, or whatever you can to find out all about them. Don't just take what's said in the news or on TV...find out for yourself! And don't limit yourself to a particular party or (eeek) race!! Take out that list from the first bullet and see how each candidate measures up. Don't just find out what they plan to do if elected....find out how they plan to do it. Also, past performance should have an impact on whether or not you give the candidate your vote. If they've been in office for the last 16 years and you haven't seen any improvement...GIVE THEM THE BOOT!!

Your vote is a very valuable tool! Use it wisely. Don't just be another number in the voting "bloc". Have your own voice so that you can affect the kind of change you want.

Blessings

Charmaine :o)

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What's Expected from a "Friend"? Posted by Anonymous on 12:11 PM

This actually comes from a comment that was left on one of my other posts, but I thought that it was deserving of it's on space on Everyday Flavor. I kind of think a comment or two of it's own are sure to follow. My thoughts on the matter, hmmmm...

So everyday flavor...dope blog on business/service. Saints/World please take note. This week I was faced with a couple of situations. After reading "Thought you were Home...." I figured I'd throw it to Everyday Flavor and see what you had to say.

Situation:
What if you have a friend, let's say a close friend who is in business for themselves. You recognize that they may be knowledgable in some respects and have even utilized their services, or accepted their invitations to events to show support. They love what they do and believe it is their road to success. After some time however you start thinking "this" is really not their thing. You recognize that they've been in this for a few years and that they may be wasting their time because in essence they suck at "this" (or .... their delivery in it is subpar). The world that we live in now is full of dream chasers...follow your passion, love, dream folks. I get it. You don't want to dis them, or cut off the friendship, but everytime you see them you want to yell "GIVE IT UP! DO SOMETHING ELSE! YOU'RE WASTING YOUR TIME!"

You're not a hater, nor are you judging them....you're a friend and ....honestly they are not as good at the "thing" in the dream that they are chasing?

What do you do?


Submitted by: Anonymous on September 25, 2009 8:31 AM


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Dare to Expect Holiness in Your Kids! Posted by Anonymous on 8:14 PM

So the other day Jerrold and I had a situation with our daughter. Some kids from her school (a private Christian school) set up a social network and we found out that she had an account. Needless to say, some of the content that was posted was not appropriate for kids.

We dealt with this situation, but I really have a burden on my heart because I am frustrated with the issue of kids in the church acting one way in front of adults, but on the inside they really do not have a heart for God. Most people will say that kids will just be kids...but I don't think it is unreasonable to have higher expectations for kids to walk in holiness - especially if they are being brought up in the church. Don't get me wrong, I know that kids will make mistakes or bad choices at times - and that's where we as parents come in to correct them like we had to do with our daughter and the social network. She knew that the decision to create an account without permission was wrong, but she decided to do it anyway. So I had to have a discussion with her about the dangers of predators on social networks and also talk about the inappropriate content that was posted.

But I think the bigger issue is that kids emulate what they see in the home and what they are being exposed to. For example, if they see their parents going to church on Sunday and then on the drive home from church listening to lil' wayne on the radio - they will learn not to take what they hear in church seriously. This is a sticky issue, I know. This was an issue even when I was growing up. We sang in the choir, served on the junior usher board, but outside of church (and even sometimes at church) we were involved in some unholy activities. So do we just chalk it up to kids being kids?

Is it unreasonable for me to desire my children to walk in the ways of God? To desirie that they won't want to follow the crowd but be that light in the sea of darkness? That is SO what I desire, but I sometimes feel like I don't have a right to want that since I made so many mistakes when I was growing up. I mean, Jerrold and I are trying to do all the right things. We are attempting to "train them up in the way that they should go" like it says in Proverbs 22:6.

I have been pondering this for a while and I have decided that I am going to take God at His word. I can't be concerned with what everyone else is doing or what other people think. Jerrold and I will hold our kids to a higher standard...we WILL train them in the way that they should go - with no regrets or caveats that "they will do what they want to do anyway" like some people say. We WILL rely on the wisdom of God and His word as a resource and the standard for our kids. It is not unreasonable to expect our kids to trust Jesus as their savior and live for Him, even at their young age.

So pray for us, OK? And those of you that are parents...we will pray for you too.

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Thought You Were at Home huh?! Posted by Anonymous on 7:47 AM

Most people have seen the movie Barbershop right? Well, that movie really rings true in alot of what goes on in a "black" barbershop. The "Husltle Man" coming through selling everything under the sun, the local basketball star stopping through to hang out, the drama between the barbers and their girlfriends/wives, neighborhood dudes just stopping by to chop it up and watch Sports Center, cats arguing about who's better Bron or Kobe, Biggie or Jay, etc. I've been with the same barber for about 7 years now. Although he has moved to what's now his third shop, I've stayed with him and just adjusted with his moves. But that's over.

I went in the shop Friday to get my son's hair cut...but this time I had my two daughter's with me because Maine was at a conference at our church. When I get there, they have the TV on, blasting this video Every Girl, by Lil Wayne and all these other dudes. I'm walking through the shop looking for my son's barber, but while I'm walking, I notice this isn't the "radio edit", this is the uncut version and so is the video! So I immediately find his barber, get my son in the chair, and get my girls outta there. We find some folding chairs and sit outside in th front while my son got cut. (I know what you're thinking, I shouldn't have left my son in there either...huge mistake on my part.) A bit later, my daughter says she needs to use the restroom, so we go in. I guess the video was on repeat or something, because it was still on! So I tell the barber nearest the door to turn it off. Dude is like, "Huh?!" I'm like, turn that off fam, I got my girls with me!! Long story short, that will be my last visit to that shop.

The reality is, I should have stopped going there years ago. "Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life." -Proverbs 4:23 (NIV) Between the language, the choice of movies/videos, the topics of conversation, etc...being who I am (or who I desire to be), I should have stopped patronage of that shop well before I did. Beyond exposing my children to it, I shouldn't have exposed myself to it.

For whatever reason, certain business establishments have forgotten what customer service is. Businesses operate for the satisfaction of it's customers. In order to do that effectively, you first have to respect your customers. Caring about your customers is the next level, but let's just start with respect. I've been to plenty barbershops, urban clothing stores, etc. where the choice of music and conversation is not befitting for a place of business. I can voice my opinion when I find myself in those places, but beyond that, I can take my business elsewhere. C'mon ya'll...let's step it up. I don't care if you own it or if you're just an employee. You're there for the service of your customers. You can't talk however you want and listen to whatever you want while you're at work...what, you thought you were at home huh?!

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Are You Covered? Posted by Anonymous on 4:31 PM

I remember back when I lived in Tallahasse, my family and I attended this Baptist church on Orange Avenue. I donʼt recall the name of it or the Pastor, but I do remember the Sunday morning he brought a message on tithing. At that time, I wasnʼt even saved yet – still doing all-nighters at the club, drinking and smoking...but after I heard that message, I immediately became a tither. His title for his sermon was “Will a Man Rob God?!”

“For I am the LORD, I change not; therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed. Even from the days of your fathers ye are gone away from mine ordinances, and have not kept them. Return unto me, and I will return unto you, saith the LORD of hosts. But ye said, Wherein shall we return? Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings. Ye are cursed with a curse: for ye have robbed me, even this whole nation. Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it. And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the LORD of hosts. And all nations shall call you blessed; for ye shall be a delighsome land, saith the LORD of hosts.” Malachi 3:6-12

As it stands right now, there are many people in many churches around the world that will argue that tithing has passed away because it was under the law. When I say under the law, I mean the law of the Old Covenant and that with the coming of Jesus Christ, the law was no more and we were ushered into a time of Godʼs grace. But two very important facts still hold true: Tithing hasnʼt passed away and it isnʼt an option.

What exactly is the Tithe?
Tithing is about putting God first in your life. The tithing law is to give ten percent of oneʼs income back to God, with God being represented on the physical level by the source of oneʼs spiritual teaching. It is a way of renouncing the system of the world - and act of faith that shows that youʼll trust Godʼs Word and not what youʼve learned or been accustomed to. As humankind fulfills its part of the covenant by giving ten percent to God, then God fulfills his part by continually blessing us. Put Him first in your life and you can count on Him doing His part.

People sometimes resist the process of giving their tithe. Interestingly, it doesnʼt belong to you in the first place; you are just restoring it to its rightful owner – God. Instead of trusting in the Lord for their success, they trust in money or riches. Therefore, they withhold their tithes so they can have a lot more they can trust. This happened to the Hebrews, who, instead of being a pleasure to the Lord, sometimes turned to their own pleasures and stopped tithing. It wasnʼt too long before things went awry. When they questioned why, the answer was always that they had broken Godʼs covenant. Then the people would restore the covenant
by tithing; they would start to flourish again, and there would be no war. One of the fundamental errors that we have as human beings is greed, which is manifested mostly in terms of money or monetary value. Greed, by its very nature, is a striking against the riches within oneself because it appears that there is never enough here in the world. Our eyes are always “hungry”, we are always after “more”.

Back when I heard that message “Will a Man Rob God?”, I thought to myself...”How could a man rob God?!”. I mean, what in a man, would tell him that robbing God could be beneficial. Without getting super deep or super spiritual, the Bible says that if you do not tithe and give offerings, you are robbing God. Also, it has to be noted that it doesʼt read “tithes or offerings”...it reads “and”. I vowed to myself from that point on that I would tithe on all legal (gotta add that for some of my "fresh-off-the-block" Saints lol) income that came to me and give offerings as the Spirit within me leads me to. After getting saved and attending a Bible-teaching church reguarly, I have gained knowledge and understanding of the tithe and its operation and function in a Kingdom lifestyle.

“For I am the LORD, I change not therefore ye sons of Jacob are not consumed. Even from the days of your fathers ye are gone away from mine ordinances, and have not kept them. Return unto me, and I will return unto you, saith the LORD of hosts. But ye said, Wherein shall we return?” v. 6,7

They had been murmering against God, because they did not see his help, which in actuality, had been ever present to defend them. Therefore, God accuses them of being ungrateful, and shows that they are not daily consumed. It was a sign that He still defends them, and so his mercy towards them never changes. Then He goes on to say that they havenʼt been following the laws that have been placed before them, laws that go back to their fathersʼ days. He tells them to return
to Him by returning to these ways that they were instructed to follow. This applies to us even today. Godʼs people want to “blame” Him for not being there when we face troubling times, but He has to constantly show us in one way or another that Heʼs always there. And He wants us also to return to Him, return to the ordinances that He has set for us in His Word.

“Will a man rob God? Yet ye have robbed me. But ye say, Wherein have we robbed thee? In tithes and offerings. Ye are cursed with a curse: for ye have robbed me, even this whole nation. Ye are cursed with a curse: for ye have robbed me, even this whole nation.” v. 8,9

God considers it robbery to not come to Him with tithes and offerings. The thing about the tithe is that it is God-given and like I stated earlier, paying of the tithe is just returning to God what belongs to Him. Itʼs taking something that has been dedicated to God, which cuts off a system which was set in place to bless His people. He also goes on to say that you shall be cursed because this total wrong has been done to him. Deuteronomy 28 teaches on the blessings and the curses that are activated when the commandments of God are either followed or not...and youʼll notice the list of curses is much longer than that of the blessings.

“Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.” v. 10

PROVE ME NOW...God is telling us to test him! See if the system that He has put into place wonʼt put us, His people, in a better position. Heʼs saying here that through the tithe, He will open the windows of heaven and pour, not sprinkle, pour out a blessing that there insʼt room enough to receive it! Thatʼs BIG! It's not about money falling out the sky, random checks coming in the mail or any of that hocus pocus. It's about God providing new opportunities, business ventures, unexpected favor, etc.

“And I will rebuke the devourer for your sakes, and he shall not destroy the fruits of your ground; neither shall your vine cast her fruit before the time in the field, saith the LORD of hosts. And all nations shall call you blessed; for ye shall be a delighsome land, saith the LORD of hosts.” v. 11,12

This is the best part to me. He tells us here, that He will keep satan off our backs for participating in the giving of the tithe and offerings. In the scripture, God is referring to whatever can attack and destroy the labor of our hands or bodies. Yes, we'll face hardships, we'll have hard situations to withstand (and eventually overcome) and other challenges in life. But even with that said, satan canʼt come in and destroy our finances, our children, our property, etc., these things are protected because of the tithe. The tithe becomes like insurance of the Kingdom. Are you covered?


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My Name is JD, and I'm a Addicted to Watches... Posted by Anonymous on 1:59 PM

From time to time, I come across some of the DOPEST watches (my opinion). So I figure I might as well share them with the world when I run up on them. And no, they probably won't be the "what's hot right now" joints, but timeless pieces according to my own taste. Enjoy!

*thinking as I'm typing* I gotta step my timepiece game up!!

I'll update them as I see new joints...



Timberland Men's "Four-Eye" Steel Dial Watch



Gucci Men's "G Chrono Collection" Black Stainless Steel Bracelet Watch


Gucci Men's "I-Gucci Collection" Black Rubber Strap Watch


Kenneth Cole New York Men's Croc-Embossed Brown Leather Strap Watch


Kenneth Cole New York Men's Polyurethane Strap Watch


Kenneth Cole New York Men's Polyurethane Strap Watch


Kenneth Cole New York Men's Polyurethane Strap Watch


GUESS Collection Men's Chronograph Brown Leather Strap Watch


GUESS Men's Red Silicone Strap Watch


Michael Kors Men's Black Polyurethane Strap Watch


D&G Dolce & Gabbana Men's "Andy" Brown-Strap Logo Watch


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Cheaters Never Win Posted by Anonymous on 8:29 PM

Each day I spend about 2 hours commuting to and from work. Most of the time I'm in back to back traffic. Over the last eight years that I've lived in the Chicagoland area I've come to learn that there are a lot of cheaters on the road. I don't like cheaters. I know, I know, you're wondering what in the heck I'm talking about. I know you've seen them (and maybe you're one of them). They're the people who think that wherever they're going is the most important place on the earth - and they will disregard all common courtesy on the road trying to get there.

I think I'm really obsessed with these cheaters though, I mean really. For example, there's this exit ramp to get to 290 going west from the Dan Ryan expressway in Chicago. There are two lanes - one to go to 290W and another to go downtown to the loop. Every time I have to use this exit I get all hot and bothered. I wait at the end of the line in the lane to get onto 290W very patiently - this lane is always so slow and VERY long. Meanwhile, I see a million and one cheaters use the right lane the loop to skip in front of everyone. This really gets me upset! For the life of me I can't understand why these people think it's alright to cheat their way to the front of the line...and they don't even realize that the reason the line is so long is because of them cutting in!!! I will admit that I NEVER let cheaters merge in the lane in front of me. I do everything humanly possible to keep them from cutting in front of me (take that cheating somewhere else man!) I also remember their make and model of car and purposely drive up next to them when we finally get onto 290W to look them in their face and mouth "CHEATER" to them....yes I do...I said I was a bit obsessed now!!



I always wonder what's going through someone's mind when they do something rude on the road. It's such an impersonal interaction - since they cut in line on the road would they also cut in line at the store??? I think not. That's a much more personal interaction...you're right in their face. Have you ever noticed that when someone does something rude to you on the road they won't look you in the face if you drive up next to them? They act like they don't see you there (it is sometimes pretty funny how hard people try to ignore you after they've just cut you off or blocked you from merging or something). I think they're embarrassed that they acted so rudely and don't have the guts to own up to it. What about getting behind the wheel makes people so inconsiderate? We're all out here trying to get somewhere, so the golden rule should apply on the road too.

So what about you...are you a cheater on the road? I hope not.....


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Gifted Hands: The Ben Carson Story Posted by Anonymous on 10:03 PM

A frustrated young boy with problems in school overcomes the obstacles in his life to become a world-renowned neurosurgeon. This uplifting and inspirational film stars Oscar® winner Cuba Gooding Jr. and two-time NAACP Image Award winner Kimberly Elise. It is based on the true story of Dr. Benjamin S. Carson, whose lifelong journey led him to become director of pediatric neurosurgery at Johns Hopkins Children’s Center, a best-selling author and a recipient of the Presidential Medal of Freedom.

Check out the movie poster!



(Courtesy of http://www.tnt.tv/movies/giftedhands)

It was Maine's turn to choose the movie for our date night, and this is the one she chose. I was expecting some mushy, chick-flick, but was very pleasantly surprised. There was alot that I took from this film that might need to be a must-see for parents. It was very inspirational, faith-filled story of a young man's jourey through life.

1.) The mother, played by Kimberly Elise, was a 3rd grade educated, illiterate cleaning woman. Wow...that's a mouthful, but that was her background. She ended up alone raising her two boys. But she had very high hopes for her sons and spoke greatness to them regularly. She told them the power of their minds, their imagination and that they could accomplish anything they wanted, as long as they were willing to put in the work to get it.

2.) The boys were often distracted by television, spending hours at a time watching it... She came in from work one day, turned the television off and proceeded to let them know they watch too much, and instead, they can only watch two programs...per week! The extra time would be spent at the library and they were responsible for reading two books per week and then writing an essay about the books. (It wasn't until after the movie that Maine and I were discussing the movie, that I remembered that she couldn't even read!!)

There are many other very inspiring facets to this film, but these two really stuck out to me. Now, of course, I know it's a movie...made to invoke an emotional response, but real is real. There is nothing like the power of vision and that's exactly what this film was about. The only thing stopping us from achieving everything that God has for us...is us.


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Any Given Sunday Posted by Anonymous on 6:12 PM

Anybody who knows me, knows that I am an avid sports fan. Well...not so much "sports," because I really only follow two: Basketball and Football. As far as basketball, I really don't have any loyalty to any specific team as much as I follow players I like. (For the record, this is the Age of Kobe, so no need to wonder who I'm riding with.) Now football...there's only one team for me! I bleed green and gold baby, Green Bay Packers til Jesus comes back!!

So I'm watching the Packer game today, but I made the mistake of watching it while laying in the bed. Needless to say, I feel asleep. (And please don't question my fanhood because I fell asleep on my team...tired is as tired does.) I wake up, the Bears game is on and Icheck the scores that scroll the bottom of the screen. Couldn't believe what I was seing. THE PACKERS LOST TO THE BENGALS...AT LAMBEAU?! I mean, who loses to the Bengals?! I should have known it was gone end up that way when Ochocinco (Chad Johnson) did the Lambeau Leap and wasn't tossed back to the field as he should have been... So I see some other scores from around the league and was just as flabergasted with those results. The Patriots lost to the Jets?! Word?! I mean, it's the new look Jets and all...Sanchez and what not...but hold up, we're talking Brady to Moss right?!

So sarcastically, I post to twitter: "Ok...what's really goin on?! I wake up and find my @packers lost to Cinnci?! AND New England lost to the Jets?! Guess the Bears gone win too." Needless to say, the Urlacher-less Bears beat the Super Bowl defending Champ Steelers... Wow, that's why I love this game! Any Given Sunday...

(Photo courtesy of Jim Biever/Packers.com)

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The Vendor/Client Relationship...in Real World Situations Posted by Anonymous on 8:22 PM

As a graphic designer that has dealth with a very wide range of clients, this video is humorous, but rings so true in its message. Designers deal with so many types of scenarios, but nine times out of ten, the most common one is a lack of funds or the client who doesn't know what they want, or they'll know it when they see it! Aggggghhh!! And don't even get me started on the "chuch folk". Frustrating is an understatement.



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Entering a New World Posted by Anonymous on 8:04 AM

What's good my people!

Ok, not exactly sure how this whole thing is going to play out, but here we are! My wife and I always have these provacative conversations about things and we'd like to hear other's opinions and input on those matters, but between Facebook and Twitter, we still weren't having the types of conversations we'd like. So Maine (what I'll be referring to my wife as from this day forward…and that's only a name for me to call her!) came up with the idea of starting a blog. With that, my love for music and loving to share new finds with anyone who shares my love (or will take the time to listen or watch), my affinity for sports (really only basketball and football!), my passion for just about anything design (a professional graphic designer and ex-architecture student), and fashion… My wife's love of family, her expertise in the area of Financial Literacy (with emphasis in higher education), her attraction to all things HGTV (interior design, landscaping, real estate sales and acquisition) …we figured a blog would be a great forum for everything Daniels!

But the one thing we plan to share through this blog, the one constant in everything we are and will be, is our faith in and love for the Lord Jesus Christ. Most of our concerns about the destruction of the family structure, the influence of urban music on our youth, lack of heroes and true role models in our communities–we've found–all boils down to the absense of a true fear and reverential respect of the Lord God.

So with all that said...let's see how this thing unfolds!!

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